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Psychologist-Approved Gifts For Your Artistic Daughter At Any Age Without Breaking The Bank

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Mothers of different origins tend to become similar to each other on the days leading up to their daughter’s birthday, in the sense that they seem to need assistance from a psychologist during this time more than ever. The reason is not always because the birthday girl is begging for them to throw a huge party or she keeps on asking if she can already have a boyfriend. It may not either be because you are too busy at work, and you cannot take a leave of absence to be with your daughter on her special day.

If you think of moms in general (and you may be one too), you may realize that most of them want to get presents that are within a 100-dollar budget. This idea can apply not only for middle-class individuals but also for wealthy folks who don’t wish to spoil their kids with expensive gifts. After all, it will allow them to find great joy, even in little things.

Now, before you start looking through department stores or online shops, there is one thing that you have to consider: the age of your kid.

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3 To 8 Years  Old

If your daughter is in the early childhood stage in which she likes everything girly, she may appreciate dolls, tea or kitchen sets, princess gowns, and pretty much anything else that is pink in color. You may find these as expensive gifts off the bat, but that will not be the case if only you know where to buy them.

13 To 17 Years Old

Some girls may or may not have foregone their idolatry for princesses when they become teenagers, but their passion for colors and bling only intensifies as they get older. On your daughter’s birthday, therefore, you may want to consider buying long-chained necklaces, wooden or metal bangles or earrings of different designs that you can buy from some night markets at the lowest possible price. Aside from that, there are online stores that give significant discounts if you buy in bulk. I doubt if these knickknacks will even squeeze out more than $70 from your wallet when you buy from such places.

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18 To 24 Years Old

This is the time when you genuinely have to think about your gifts for the birthday girl because your baby is already a young adult. While I was surfing through the internet, I came across this online shop called Etsy that sells fabulous jewelry that ranges from new designs to vintage designs which can cost no more than 50 bucks. There are also other items, including shirts, mugs, mats, pins, pens, and even notebooks. The good thing about it is that you can have the trinkets engraved, stamped, or embossed with your daughter’s initials or actual name so you can give her a more personalized present.

25+ Years Old

Although being at the age of 25 or more still makes your daughter a young adult, it is no secret that your kid’s preferences may have already changed around this time. For that reason, you should pay attention to the things that she talks about whenever you are shopping together. It won’t hurt to stalk your baby girl’s Instagram account as well since the photos that she posts there will most likely give you an idea about the things she is into recently. At this point, your daughter may even appreciate gift cards to her favorite stores like Starbucks, Amazon, Audible, etc.

Alternatively, in case your child has recently been talking about her childhood days, you can surprise her with old items from the past. For instance, make the same birthday cake that she smashed on her 1st birthday. You may also look for an adult-sized version of her favorite clothing ensemble many years ago so that she can take a picture in it and compare the two photos.

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Final Thoughts

Nobody can honestly tell that they find gift-buying for their kids a stress-free task. For one, you want to impress your daughter and make her yell, “I have the best momma in the world!” At the same time, you undoubtedly do not want all of her college funds to go to a single birthday present. Not only is that impractical, but it might make your daughter expect gifts that are too expensive from you every time.

If you want to give presents that will not break the bank and your child will most likely appreciate, follow the tips above. Good luck!

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Understanding Depersonalization Disorder in the Eyes of Yayoi Kusama

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You may be wondering who is the brilliant artist that used the theme of dots in all her artwork. Her pieces are quite fascinating, and it will make you think why did I not think of this before – to use dots as the center and focus of my art and make millions. Well, frankly, that’s myself speaking while looking at her lovely work.

 

Late in November last year, we made it to the art exhibit of Yayoi Kusama, or also known as the “Polka Dot Princess.” As you can see from the photos here, she uses almost 99% of dots into her paintings, adding them sculptures, or splattering them to the walls. If you have a fear of circle objects, then this is not for you. Seriously, her artwork is unique and out- of this world. So, why dots?

The 86-year-old Japanese artist used art as her therapy and escape for her mental illness. At the age of ten, Yayoi was already having hallucinations that primarily consist of flashes of light and immensely fields of dots. She experienced anxiety and dreadfulness every time she encounters this type of episodes. To put her emotions more constructive, she started drawing and painting her obsessions, and this began her life as an artist.

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In one narrative about Yayoi, she was diagnosed with depersonalization disorder. This type of mental illness is “marked by periods of feeling disconnected or detached from one’s body and thoughts (depersonalization)”. People with depersonalization disorder are not total mentally deranged in fact, they are still in contact with the reality and are very much aware of their symptoms. When asked, individuals experiencing depersonalization described it like looking at your self or something like in a state of dream. Depersonalization disorder is under the umbrella of dissociative disorders which are characterized by memory breakdown, disruptions in awareness, identity and even perception.

Treatment

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Yayoi’s sublimation or displacement of emotions into a constructive rather than destructive activity, catapulted her to be the most expensive female artist at the present time. Just like Yayoi, persons with depersonalization disorder can be treated and manage their symptoms as needed. Treatment includes the following:

  • Psychotherapy or talk therapy allows the person to speak about their thoughts and feelings in relation to their psychological conflicts.
  • Medications can be prescribed to help depression, anxiety, and disorder thinking. Additional health teachings are provided to take care of oneself when on medications because these drugs have side or adverse effects that can harm the person.
  • Family therapy to include the family members in the treatment process.
  • Music and art therapies are examples of creative therapies to channel the negative emotions and other symptoms associated with depersonalization disorder to a more constructive outcome. Just like Yayoi.
  • Clinical hypnosis may or may not work on certain persons, however, this treatment technique puts the person at a complete state of relaxation and will begin to examine and explore their feelings, thoughts, and memories that are lurking behind their conscious minds.
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